What I’m up to now
I’ve always loved the idea of a “Now Page”—a concept originating from Derek Sivers. The kind of update you’d give a friend you haven’t seen in a while. Beyond answering the usual “What are you up to these days?”, it’s also a simple way to stay grounded in what matters most. A quiet check-in on where my time and energy are actually going. So, here’s what life looks like these days as of May 2026.
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Loving all the dogs
Nearly three years ago, I started Staycation Club for Dogs—born from my love of dogs, home, and travel, and shaped by our search for truly specialized care for our dog Maddie after she became paralyzed, just before a trip to Northern Spain.
Today, I care for a small handful of dogs in my home, offering a calmer, more personal alternative to high-energy boarding.
It’s deeply meaningful work—a true labor of love. I feel like I’ve stepped into my purpose.
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Traveling again
We’re finally putting our Global Entry to good use, and it feels so good to be out in the world again.
Lately, that’s taken us to Mexico, Africa, the Netherlands, Australia, New Zealand, and Japan—with a handful of smaller trips in between.
I’ve also started documenting our travels, which has become a creative outlet I genuinely love. Along the way, we’ve come across so many special places and experiences, and I’ve found a lot of joy in sharing those finds with others planning their own trips.
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Editing photos
I realize this is a good problem to have—too many travel photos to go through! From our Africa trip alone, I took around 5,000—and turned a fraction of them into a giant coffee table book.
I spend an unreasonable amount of time in Adobe Lightroom, always telling myself “just a few,” before inevitably revisiting entire trips.
At this point, I’ll probably document every big trip we take. I love the process of bringing it all back to life—and rediscovering the places we fell in love with along the way.
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Still healing
Four years ago, at 38, I was diagnosed with hormone-positive breast cancer—Invasive Ductal Carcinoma and Ductal Carcinoma in Situ in my left breast. I chose a double mastectomy and reconstruction.
Reconstruction is often framed as the end, but for many of us, it’s just the beginning.
I’m in active treatment for the next several years to help prevent recurrence, navigating side effects like joint pain, and preparing for another surgery. These days, a lot of it is about trying to feel like myself again.
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Finding my way forward
The past seven years have been marked by deep grief. I’ve lost some of the most important figures in my life—my parents and my dogs—and these years have been shaped by that absence.
I carry them with me in everything I do, and I’m learning to stay present in what’s here now, even when it’s tender.
I’m continuing to move through this season with intention—making space for deep rest and healing, and allowing things to slowly find their balance again in their own time.
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Coming home to myself
I’m learning to find my place of belonging—both in the world and within myself. Letting go of what drains me and choosing what feels real. I no longer feel the need to prove myself by running myself into the ground, or staying anywhere that doesn’t feel good to be in.
Things feel clearer now. I have less anxiety. I make space for myself, move more, rest deeply, and write often. I feel more at home in myself than I have before—maybe ever—and it’s something I return to daily.
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Raising our microbully
We weren’t planning on adopting another dog, but Bluey had other plans. From the moment he met Maddie, they shared an unspoken bond—they were inseparable. I never thought I’d be a boy mom, but I love it.
He came with a bad knee, a bad hip, and a serious heart condition. Genetically a disaster, but completely ours.
We don’t know how much time we have with him, so we’re just trying to make every day with him count.
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Making room for one more
She came to us as Francis, a rescue needing a temporary stay after having puppies, but she settled in like she’d always belonged, instantly bonding with Bluey.
The minute we started dreaming up names for her, it was clear she wasn’t going anywhere.It’s funny—Maddie had a little paw print marking on the back of her head, and Birdie has something similar in the exact same spot. It feels like Maddie left her stamp of approval.
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Still working on the house
Our nearly 100-year-old home is always evolving. Walls have come down, old knob-and-tube wiring has been replaced, the kitchen fully remodeled, an ADU built, and a once-empty dirt lot slowly turned into a green oasis—all over time.
Next up is transforming our one-car garage into a studio for the business.
I’m learning to embrace the in-between and trust that this home—like us—will continue to evolve over time.